It's my 998th day in Xanga, but on this day I'm going to release my new blog site for your reading! :)

http://nottozlady.blogspot.com/

I'm back I'm back! There was a diversion to my new blog site since the last time when Xanga let me down. But hey, I still have my audience here, and am not quite ready to reveal my new blog site. Why the secrecy? Hmm, so that I can blog without a care, include all vulgarities and not care a bit about maintaining my image!

"How's life?" That's a phrase I like to greet people with, especially if I have not met up with them for sometime. Most people would reply with kinda standard replies such as "Fine", "Okay", "Like that lor". Then, some would give me a little surprised look, wondering how come a friend who is not-so-close to them would ask them such a warm question. If the question were to be thrown upon me, I would answer "Not bad, going good", which I feel a lot of people won't feel so and answer so.

We tend to view our lives as routine and monotonous, and in the midst of this non-turbulent flow, all things that happen are viewed as just part of the normal process. Are these events happy or upsetting ones? Or did they happen as they were supposed to? We hardly give events in our lives a second thought, to ponder on how they arise and if we can obtain happiness and joy from them.

Also, I find it quite amusing that humans generally do not like to believe they are having a good life. At the back of the mind, one could feel lucky to be in his current stage in life, but dares not admit to it. Admitting one's fortunes would somehow result in the snatching away of these fortunes and luck. That is, perhaps, why people tend to believe more in negatives than positives. We should just embrace our lives, believe in the good things in life and put in efforts to convert the negatives into positives, if not, at least a neutral.

Life is in one's hand. We gotta take control and make the best out of it.

Xanga has let me down! Just now I couldn't post my blog online, luckily I copied the contents before clicking on the "Post" button. So, I shall alternate between blogspot (let me keep it private for now, release later) and Xanga from now on.

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Yay! It's my day off today! It feels great to be let off the hook of work. Today is WW's convocation; how time flies. Congrats dear WW! When I think of my convocation last year, it seems like years ago. Now both of us are official working adults, having to shoulder responsibilities, start saving prudently and soon, plan for bigger and grander things ahead. An exciting future to look forward to!

I'm so hungry now, waiting for my sister to wake up for breakfast together. I've waited for an hour! Time with my dear sis is precious nowadays, due to her working hours (4pm-midnight). Most of the time when I'm off to work in the morning, she is still deep in slumber. And when she's back from home, I would have been sound asleep. So we've a designated catch-up time on Thurs night when we go for teh at the 24-hours coffeeshop downstairs. Next time it would be even harder to catch up when she gets married and moves into Tong's and her flat.

Talking about moving into flats and marriage, I've attended another of my dear friend's wedding on Sat! I was one of the five jiemeis helping her out on her Big Day and was so happy for her and her hubby. Yep, this time round it was Sophia and Vincent, both walking happily and blissfully, hand-in-hand down the aisle. It was pretty touching at parts of the wedding when she and Vincent did the march-in, when their montage was showing and when both gave their speeches, giving thanks to their parents and friends. Oh boy, I was a little teary then! When did I start becoming so emotional?